Life is full of disappointments, ain’t it? I mean Jon Snow died!! what can be possibly worse than that!! but on a serious note, we always have those certain goals which we could not achieve. When we look back, we are often haunted by those certain failures which we could not overcome.So, what can be possibly done to change these failures into success?
These are four simple steps that you need to follow to turn your failure into success –
1. Don’t Brood Over Your Failure
What’s gone is gone! poof! you need to come in terms with your past failure , it is not just useless but also and act of weakness portrayed by those who are not strong enough to deal with problems. It may not necessarily be easy to get over it or not be bothered by it but, it is imperative to not continuously cry over it. If you are hurt , cry for two minutes , get up and then continue walking.
” I may walk slowly , but I will never stop walking. ” – Abraham Lincoln.
So, don’t brood over your failure, you are doing nothing but wasting that time which can be utilised to over come it and turn it into success.
2. Think Over Your Failure
It is important to not brood over it but , at the same time it is much more important that you critically analyse it. You need to know what went wrong the last time, maybe you did work hard enough or you did not have the correct information or the right means, whatever it might had been you need to know it , the steps leading towards your goal should be black and white , so that, these erroneous elements are not the reason to again keep you away from your success.
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” Don’t be afraid of making mistakes,be afraid of not learning from them”
3. Positive Attitude
Faith can move mountains. You need to believe in yourself and have a positive attitude. Nothing is a piece of cake, there will be obstructions, no one is asking you to be Superman and actually move mountains , all you need to do is believe in yourself and have correct attitude towards the situation. Try to speak out and connect to people whenever you are dealing with such a problem, check 10 Tip to Be a Good Orator.
” How come under the same set of circumstances,some people break records while others break
themselves? The difference is the attitude.”
Train your mind to see the good in everything.
4. Hard Work
Lastly, nothing is possible if you don’t work for it. Successful people are not gifted,they just work hard and then, succeed on purpose. If plan to lie in the couch all day and wait for Cinderella’s fairy godmother to come and help you, all I can say is , life is not a Disney movie and even Cinderella had to clean and do other household work and you’ll end up like her ugly step-sisters! So if you really,really want some thing and you have decided to work for it the whole universe will conspire towards it.
” I hate the word – lucky. It cheapens a lot of hard work ”
– Peter Drinklage.
Through your learning, attitude and hard work you will definitely succeed in attaining whatever you want.
“You are the masterpiece of your own life.
You are the Michelangelo of your own life.
The David you are sculpturing is you.”
– Dr. Joe Vitale.