Ah, exes on social media: that awkward mix of curiosity, nostalgia, and “Do I hit ‘like’ or pretend I never saw this?” Whether it’s a former flame, coworker, or that guy who still owes you $20. One wrong move and you’re tumbling into the abyss of overthinking and potential social media faux pas.
Let’s ditch the drama, avoid any accidental TikTok feuds, and master the art of the perfect ex-related comment. Because nobody wants to accidentally reignite an old flame (or start a new one with a poorly placed emoji).
Indirect Comments for Ex Photos
Because sometimes you want to say something… just not too much.
We’ve all been there: scrolling, spotting an ex’s pic, and suddenly your thumb hovers like it’s defying gravity.
Indirect comments let you acknowledge their post without reopening old group chats. Keep it light, vague, and totally un-rizzable. Think of it as social media small talk—no deep dives, just polite nods.
Neutral and positive, focusing on the experience rather than the person.
Compliments the backdrop, avoiding direct praise for the ex.
Vague enough to avoid intimacy but acknowledges shared history.
A classy, impersonal nod to their happiness.
Emojis add lightness while keeping the tone casual.
Focuses on aesthetics, not the subject—ideal for artistic or travel shots.
Redirects attention to the location, avoiding personal connection.
Vague praise about the moment rather than the person.
Pro Tip: Keep your tone neutral and impersonal—focus on the photo’s content, not your shared history. Avoid referencing inside jokes or memories, which could unintentionally reopen old wounds.
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Best Comments for Ex Photos
Classy, cool, and totally unbothered—like a rom-com protagonist sipping coffee.
When you want to be the bigger person (but not too big), these comments are your golden ticket. They’re polite, slightly generic, and scream, “I’m thriving too, thanks for asking!”
Compliments the image while keeping distance.
Focuses on their interests rather than your history.
Mature and forward-looking.
Friendly but not overly familiar.
Geotags or hobbies make it about the location/event, not your history.
Compliments their skill (not their looks) and feels breezily nostalgic.
Playful but impersonal, leaning into pop-culture trends for distance.
Pro Tip: Stay positive but brief—overly enthusiastic replies might send mixed signals. Use emojis sparingly to keep the interaction friendly yet distant.
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Good Comments for Ex-Girlfriend’s Pic
Walk the line between “I’m not bitter” and “I’m definitely not still writing poetry about you.” Commenting on an ex-girlfriend’s post? Channel your inner zen master. Compliment her achievements, not her eyeliner. Avoid 🥺 emojis, and never quote Taylor Swift lyrics. You’re not subtle, Chad.
Praise her skill, not her personally.
Warm yet clearly platonic.
Celebrates her growth without intimacy.
Focuses on empowerment, not nostalgia.
Simple, kind, and uncomplicated.
Praises aesthetics, not her—ideal for fashion or art-focused posts.
Celebrates her ambition without implying closeness.
Empowering but impersonal, avoiding direct compliments on her appearance.
Pro Tip: Avoid nostalgic or overly personal remarks—compliment her achievements or style instead. If you’re unsure, lean into generic praise to prevent misinterpretation.
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Comments for Ex-Boyfriend’s Pic
Ex-boyfriend posts a gym selfie? Resist the urge to ask if he’s still allergic to dishwashing.
Stick to bro-approved nods and zero emotional subtext. Pretend you’re his hype man… from a respectful distance.
Keep it chill, like you’re commenting on your cousin’s vacation pics.
A bro-style compliment that stays surface-level.
Highlights the activity, not your past.
Supportive without emotional undertones.
Friendly yet detached.
Opens dialogue cautiously, if appropriate.
Casual and jokey—focuses on the photo’s composition, not his life.
Neutral praise for career/fitness goals (no “miss you” undertones).
Lighthearted and relatable, perfect for humorous or casual posts.
Pro Tip: Keep it casual and gender-neutral—avoid flirty language or comparisons to your past. If the breakup was recent, a simple “like” may be safer than a comment.
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Additional Comments for Ex-Employee
Because LinkedIn isn’t the place for passive aggression. Congratulating an ex-coworker? Skip the “Miss stealing my lunch?” jokes. Keep it professional, upbeat, and vaguely corporate—like you’re both still wearing Zoom shirts.
Ideal for job-change announcements.
Recognizes their skills neutrally.
Compliments professional growth.
Warm but maintains workplace boundaries.
Positive and celebratory.
Professional and gracious, with zero mention of their old role.
Compliments their ethic while staying LinkedIn-appropriate.
Forward-focused and optimistic, avoiding nostalgia for the past workplace.
Pro Tip: Stay professional—focus on their career growth, not personal opinions about their new role. Avoid mentioning past workplace conflicts to maintain a respectful tone.
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Let’s wrap this up like a polite brunch with your therapist. Commenting on ex-related posts is like eating spicy wings: proceed with caution, and keep water (or the mute button) nearby.
When in doubt, just double-tap and keep scrolling. Your peace of mind > their algorithm. Seriously, scrolling is free, drama is expensive. And if all else fails, remember the golden rule of ex-etiquette: if you wouldn’t say it to their face (or, better yet, to their new partner’s face), don’t say it online.
