So as we all know (or whether you don’t), chatting is the best solution when you want to pass the time though it is also done to bring up decisions, manage meetings (which is not for what you’re here). Considering it a known/unknown fact, chatting is much easier for 72% of the public than having a conversation in real life. So go ahead, learn some tips and make your chat interesting like never before. Let’s start with a situation when you’re talking to him/her for the first time.
How to make your chat interesting:
1. Beginners’ Stuff
If you’re just starting or don’t know the other person, let’s suppose to just begin with a formal “Hi”. But if you have talked for about 3-4 times, start next with asking any question you prefer or, something like “How was your day?” or “Was the day interesting without me?” usually works out.
Some attractive lines to begin a chat would be, “Though it’s none of my business, but I’m just curious to say a hi” or it could be more simpler like: I don’t remember exactly but I know you somehow, have we met earlier? The person you’re chatting with will remember and definitely revert back either in a positive manner or by blocking you, well some things totally depend on what you are.
Still you should always know compliments for girls and disturb that busiest person in this world for a minute to say “Hi” and make it interesting.
2. Avoid Chat Enders
Chat killers are specifically regarded as short replies such as ok or hmm. You have the entire dictionary to make words then why use enders?
When you’re in a situation to appreciate it use some words like “That thing is just awesome”, “Oh, that’s great”, “Yeah, that’s what I expected” (in a positive manner).
3. Questions Engage by 62%
If you feel that the chat is getting boring or less interesting, you can always pump it up by asking questions. As observed, questions generally keep the conversation engaged. Ask directly about them (not yourself), any situation or as low as “What are you doing right now?”.
Also, it’s important to appreciate the replies you get (even if they’re none of your business). This is because appreciating each other for even tiny things are important and presents that you really care about them.
4. Get Some Humor
This is your master key to every door. If you’re capable of making someone smile out of their sadness, be ready to get nominated for the Oscars. Even if you’re asking for contact number of a good friend use some humorous lines like, “I seem to have lost my phone number, can I have yours instead?” Sometimes they go great but can also make the other person kick you, it depends on how you represent it.
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5. Take Short Breaks
Yes, breaks are usually important when you chat regularly. Take some time out, go talk with others, miss them and let them miss you. This will keep you poked with others’ life as well. After some time, you can reach that person out with a surprise meet or gift which can be as low as a flower crooked from neighbour’s garden (but don’t get that!).
6. Get out of the Text World
This is something which you should try to do regularly. Don’t get addicted to text conversations only, try to engage them in video calls, watch seasons or movies together. Get ready to book your mind for tickets of the most awaited movies of 2016. Check some trending television series to watch together if you haven’t. If you are not able to meet them on a regular basis, you can use rabb.it to watch something together without being together.
Since you really are interested in making this work, Here we have another special tip for you, make groups and engage more. Get a cynic group name like Insomniacs, Brown bonds, The Grub Club here are some interesting options. This helps us with one, we don’t have the pressure to make every bit interesting a wide variety of people can contribute. Second, the person can know more of the people you know. Increases the engagement rate too.
So, it’s time to do more than just texting. Keep yourself and person you’re chatting with engaged. Attractive words are the best way to make a chat interesting, sometimes just to sum up the things or to stay in touch.