UNDERSTAND TO FEEL TO FEEL TO UNDERSTAND
…Five reasons to understand what others feel
Fortunately, we all are connected but unfortunately not by our hearts!
Sometimes, I wonder that if we actually start feeling as frequently as we use the emoticons while texting, then probably we all would have a fairer emotional quotient. Internet should be accredited with making our brains more logical (a safer assumption) and our hearts emptier. Yes, you read it right! “EMPTIER” .When was the last time you felt like smiling at a stranger? Or when was the last time when you sat with your parents or your real friends to know how their life was going? Imagining all of these things might have innocently lit up your face because it has struck a chord with your heart.
Let’s reason out as to why we should understand what others feel:
1) Approachability leads to advancement:
Sociability and approachability are tenets of humanity. A genuine attempt to understand what others feel makes you more approachableas well as gives you an edge in your professional career over others.
2) No fights, all right! :
Don’t you remember how that agreement of everyone to be the ‘it’ in the game of hide and seek helped in easy avoidance of conflicts?
3) Kindness is the best gift:
Nothing can be kinder than to say “I understand” on seeing others in distress. Understand first to get understood later.
4) Self-conscious to Self-confidence!
Science says that understanding the feelings of others can help us become more conscious about our own feelings and emotions. When you feel good, you perform better.
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5)Emotional Quotient-Your real scorecard:
It enables us to live a fuller life and to laugh a little louder too which improves your EQ.
Once we start valuing feelings, we start valuing people.
CAN’T WE MAKE “EMPATHY” THE NEW FAD?
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